sexy can mean, looks,the way a person carry themselves,sexy is all about attitude when you have it carry it well,A man may like a womens eyes, lips, the way she wears her hair,the way dresses,the way she smiles,the way that she carries herself sexy can be all these things.
It's when you or someone is describing someone as highly attractive...
Something to make man attracted to it and want you.
For me sexy is confidence in one's self. A strong man or woman who knows how they are and what they want and could care how society depicts them. It is the way a person handles themselves and the need for others not to validate their sexiness. Sexy is the look in the lustful eyes of a lover or the smooth way a woman touches her man's cheek and tells him he is her master without saying a word. The way a man brushes up against his love and lets her know how sexy she is. Or the way a man or woman carries themselves with head raised and a made up mind of what they want out of life. Sexy is a go getter who never backs down.