It is the greatest reality of life and if you realize it has many positive affects behind it. As you see that you seek many different things from your conflicting situations and prepare yourself for future. If taken in a positive and challenging way you can find it a building block of personality. On the other hand if all the things in life go on smoothly, then there would nothing for us to do and the charm of life will go away. So you must not be frustrated and go for positive outcomes.