I'm not really sure if there is a correct way of spelling those words because technically they aren't really words but when writing that's the way I spelling them. when people read it they know what you're talking about, which is really the point anyway but if you writing formally (like a paper or something) I would find another word.
Are you perhaps thinking of the correct term which is "hemming and hawing". Which is a phrase used to describe indecisiveness.
My last name is ah-hing and its cantonese. I spell it either Ah-Hing or Ah Hing and Um-Ming Um Ming would be the correct way