Y Is My Best Friend Ignoring Me And Calling Me Mean Names Behind My Back?!

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Lynne Dwyer Profile
Lynne Dwyer answered
That's that jealous, envy, rivalry thing. It's probably best to consider her no longer a best friend. Friends don't do that. If it's happened once, it will happen again. Life is way to short to be surrounded by contention.
Katie Profile
Katie answered
No one can really answer that... There could be many reasons. It depends on if she is mad at you, jelous or just bitchy. Have you done anything to make her mad? Are you mean to her behind her back? These are the questions you need to consider.
Sorry if that isn't much help.
roniece wright Profile
roniece wright answered
If she is doing this then she is not really your best friend or even a friend at that!!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I've also got a "friend" like that. Although, I've told her stuff about me and my boyfriend and not to tell anyone and then she goes and tells people and is really horrible and bitchy towards him. When I tell her to stop and leave him alone she just says something like "we're not talking about you, it's about him" and tbh I don't care if its about him, it still hurts my feelings coz I trusted her. Shes pretty much been like this for four years and I feel like I'm trapped tbh. If I wasn't friends with her, I probably wouldnt have as many good friends. Its the half term and she hasn't even spoke to me at all, it's like shes blocked me out. I don't know what to do :S
Piper Jackson Profile
Piper Jackson answered

Maybe she is just pretending to be your friend and acting all nicey- nicey with you when you are around her, but when your back is turned she says mean stuff about you. If these actions occur a lot, you should just ignore her- When a so- called friend does these kind of thing, she is obviously not a real friend if she does all these things. After a while of going through this, I suggest you just find all your true friends and stick with them. You can trust friends when you find they are true friends ( well, some friends,) because you can rely on them not to spread any of the secrets you share with them, and they will never tell stories on you or delight on getting you in trouble.

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jade peck answered
We all think we have friends that we can trust but there are some bullshiters and shit stirs we all have friend like it I had one once I had something really bad happen to me and I told her not to tell a soul but she did and know my darkest serect is now out and would never forgive her for this so beware m8 you can only trust your self

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